Tend to over analyze anyone?

hi guys?

so here's the story today, i was with some friends and we were discussing some of the differences between males and females. After a long debate and "arguing" what we boiled it down to was the fact that men, see things as exactly what they are, whereas women on the other hand... well we tend to over exaggerate over analyze and get over stressed up about basically somethings that were not even there to begin with.

A mans mind is simple, it's like an on and off switch, no twisting and turning, straight to the point and that's it.

women... Argh! we make our lives difficult and blame others for it! for example: A friend went to a football match with a guy she likes, he offered to drive her... all good! she came home and called me and we talked for 2 hours. For us girls things are soooo complicated. the questions we went over and over where along the lines of: well, why did he offer to drive me in the first place if he didnt like me, why did he not drive anyone else, why did he smile at me while he was eating, why did he do this and why did he do that??? Com'on!!! let's get serious here... there is nothing more in a mans actions that what is actually offered. A guy will not scheme, or plan ahead or use tricks. For men it's either black or white. Nothing more, nothing less!

This girlfriend of mine "read" between the lines and thought that there was a flirtatious situation going on... acted as thought something was there... and guess what? She fell flat on her face when the guy told her one day that he has a girlfriend! she was sooo sure that he wanted her, she got her judgment all clouded up and at the end? she made a fool of herself!

so... lesson to be learned. things are exactly what things are! nothing between the lines, above the lines, below the lines! nothing more nothing less!

xxx

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I havent been feeling great these past days. Nothing to do with pshychological matters or matters of the heart.. no no nothing like that. It's just that I feel so tired. I feel like sleeping all the time it's like a vicious cycle. the more i sleep the more tired i feel, the less i sleep if feel sleepy and tired.

I close my eyes and wander of to a nice cool cottage in the mountains, where i have my favourite music playing and i'm reading a lovely/fun/funny/romantic book...

If only it were true... Ah! the cool breeze out on the porch, and the birds chirping, the smell of freshness, and pine trees... oh yeah.. in my fantasy i also have a nice thick forest (which isnt scary!!!!) and a beautiful lake that i can easily swin in (because there are no nasty animals in it ;)

Anyway to wrap things up... i guess all this laziness, "flatness" is cause because i'm worried and anxious about my final exams. They are not just any finals, this is the end of the line for me where i pass and get my degree!!!!! Finally!!!

Yay!!!!
xoxoxo

summer hair/ beach blonde

Hey y'all! (in that Ruby tone - just love how she says it)

Well.. here's the thing... i went from brunette to blonde! VERY blonde (maybe i'll post some photo's for reference)


I was in the salon for 2.5 hours!!! that's why i neglected/avoided colouring my hair because basically i hate being confined in one place for a long period of time. I dont mind being stuck somewhere as long as I know that i'm free to go whenever i want and not whenever i can. Does this make any sense? Anyway.. I was in the salon for a million years and i was getting my hair coloured. My stylist, (which I love sooo much) told me that of course the colour will not be completely even on the first attempt since i had a very long root and my tips where already coloured before. He said that i will have to go in again to get everything smoothed out.

He also said that when someone has very blonde hair, a really good hair routine must be followed. I'll have to put a hydrating mask on twice a week, and wear an spf everymorning.

I guess the same routine someone should follow for the face and skin should also be followed for the hair. I really have to commit myself to this if i want my hair to stay healthy and sleek.

For the time being i couldnt afford gettin a mask but i did get the spray spf for every morning. I'm gonna stick to the traditional olive oil stuff for a while till i'm comfortable splurging a good amount of euros on a proper GOOD mask.

My first reactions on this HUGE change were mixed. I like it but i'm feeling like a fish out of the water. I used to be a blonde a looooong time ago, but never this blonde but i was comfortable with my brunette style. You know how you get yourself into a routine and feel safe?? that!

I'm liking it every second even more and i guess when i get into that routine mode again i'll be completely fine!

So, what's the most extreme thing you ever did on your hair?

I for one, have been experimenting since September 2008 on my hair, but always with different styles NOT colours. I had very long hair that went down to my waist and got it chopped of like Victoria's (Beckham) bob. After that i would go in the salon every couple of months and get a shorter and shorter hair due till my brother's hair was actually longer than mine!!

anyway! i'm rambling on and on and basically drifting away from the subject. So, i'm signing of :)))

Take care everyone, anyone?

xx

Monday Morning

Well, here we are again... another Monday morning and i'm at the office. I really hate Mondays for two reasons:

#1 well.. it's Monday! who likes waking up in the morning at 6:15 to get ready for work after a well rested weekend, where you can sleep in till late and all that. sometimes i wish it was Sunday everyday! not having to worry about work and what to wear, no makeup, no house chores no nothing. Just relaxing, reading blogs, watching videos, catching up with my books and TV shows that i love.

#2... Times flows by so fast and each Monday reminds me that another week has gone by... i always kind of feel sad on Mondays because looking back to the past week I realize that I have accomplished nothing seriously important and that I dont have enough time left to do whatever. I dont know... I wish I were more active in the week but still i dont seem to find the energy because of the classic excuse: I have to wake up in the morning.

One thing that i did yesterday and made me feel really good was donating some cash to ahopeforchildren.org. It's a non-profit organization that helps children in Ethiopia that were born with the HIV virus. I know that this is nothing to brag about, or show off but i really do care about HIV possitive patients. It's a cause, especially here where i live that is widely neglected and i do believe that people still have taboo's where HIV is concerned!

If everyone could just open their eyes for once and see the big picture!!!

Sunday Study

So, here i am, notes and pens all laid out in front of me and my laptop. I read one word, one sentence and then i go again and turn on my media player and watching supernatural! yea.. i know.. get serious girl or else! i have an appointment with my supervisor on Wednesday and all i got done is 3/4 of a page.

I guess if i do nothing else today i'll be able to do more work. I also got more stuff to study for! i've got 7 chapters of environmental economics, organizational behavior, marketing and one more little project (that one doesn't worry me, it's just a couple of pages!)

Sometimes i wonder how multitasking people can be but then, really? is there such a thing as multitasking? i think NO! i mean com' on, seriously, you cant really concentrate and do 2-3 things at once! you are not committed to the task at hand and end up doing sloppy work!

anyway... i guess i'm going to go get some lunch and continue watching Supernatural (visualizing having a hot date with DEAN!) he is my type of man! he has everything i would love a man to have, a sick sense of humor :p, he's smart, cute and hell VERY sexy!!!

Supernatural!

Ok... so, here's the deal! I've been obsessing lately over a show called Supernatural! yea... i know i'm late into the game but i'm really trying to catch up real quickly! I've already watched season 1, i'm midway through season 2 and season 3 is waiting patiently in "downloaded" folder. (seaspm 4 is downloading and it seems like it's taking for ever! damn!)

Sometimes i wish my connection was SUPER UBER fast! it takes a couple of days for me to download full seasons. Anyway! back to the point, I've been a faithful fan of Ghost Whisperer but i couldn't hold my breath for new episodes! (I really love that show and i'm excited every time the newest episode is downloaded and then i feel really really sad when i'm done watching it! :( ) so.... besides my final project work for uni and a full time job (again at uni) i had to find something else to watch! ... i remembered that my brother said Supernatural is fantastic and that i would love it..and soo... here i am... 4 days later and i'm obsessing about it!!!!! Where have i been? why is it that the tv stations in my country are SOOOO back dated or well.. lack good shows?

I guess i have to thank the genius out there who discovered torrent files!

what are your thoughts about the mentioned shows? any other recommendations for me? I'm also trying to download "Fringe" and "Bones" and i really like Cold Cases but i'll pass that show for now :)